Change is something that presses us out of our comfort zone. Change is for the better or for the worst, depending on where you view it. It has an adjustment period which varies on the individual. It is uncomfortable, for changing from one state to the next upsets our control over outcomes. But in this case a lot of people do not do this change, but rather be a person doing nothing in their. But how can we change the world in our own betterment if the things we always do is making ourselves down.
Changing others is not under your control and you cannot change people who don’t want to change. The only thing under your control is you. You can indeed change yourself. And if you constantly keep on adding positive changes in your personality you indeed grow as a person. And you cannot keep preaching people until you are aware of your own bullshit. So, the first step towards anything and everything starts from you and you only. If you are not aware of yourself and want others to change then there is no point at all. And when you keep learning and upgrading yourself everyday, you gain knowledge and wisdom to know why you need to change in order to change others.
Now, even if you are full of wisdom then also you cannot change others if they don’t want to. So, change yourself to understand yourself, then someday you will realize the power of the statement, ‘Be the change you want to see in others.’
Reference:
https://www.quora.com/Why-should-we-first-change-ourselves-to-change-others
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